Once upon a time, I lived a life where Memorial Day weekend marked the beginning of summer, with backyard barbecues and three days off from work and school.

I was always touched by the parade and cemetery services in that small town.

But I’ll admit the holiday fun only actually began after that “depressing part” was over.

I remembered what Memorial Day was all about, but I didn’t know.

This year I know.

Read the rest at Time.com here:

Memorial Day